Parented Smarter

We’ve been teaching for a very long time. And, at this point, we’ve been parents for almost as long. All of that kid-facing time and experience has given us a unique lens on what really helps families, both in the classroom and at home, when a new school year kicks off. 

For sure, all the super simple but time-consuming minutiae of September help in real ways - put your last name on EVERYTHING, send foods they will actually eat in their lunch, wear sneakers every day, and don’t send them to school in or with anything that’s precious or priceless.

How to parent smarter this September? 

We’ve got your cheatsheet to crush this wacky month.

Prioritize rest and downtime. Try not to overbook. 

You know it's coming. All the commitments, practices, make-up games, and playdates fill up the afternoons and weekends quickly. This is the month to pace yourself. Whenever you can, give your kiddo time to rest, adjust to the new routines, and catch their breath. They have lots to process in the opening weeks. Support a smooth adjustment by pulling back on commitments.

Communicate with your teachers.

Teachers are busy. Parents are busy. And kids need us both. Don’t shy away from building a partnership with your child’s teacher from the start. Have a question? Ask it! Remember, there are many months ahead, so consider how you want to engage to keep things positive and collaborative. Most teachers love dialogue, brainstorming, and having a partner in a parent. Find ways to connect that benefit your kiddo.

Don’t do the homework. Really. 

Let teachers know if it’s taking a long time or causing stress at home.

Homework is a must in many schools. And sometimes what is happening at home makes completing homework a serious battle. It could be a learning difference, stressed kids, power struggles, not understanding material, or any number of variables…parenting is messy. No matter, your teachers would rather know than have you battle it out at home. Again, partner with teachers and help your kid (and you!)

Do the work on your end with independence & realistic routines.

Kids need to be fairly independent in school. For little ones, managing clothes in the bathroom or carrying their own bag is a must. For bigger kids, charging the Chromebook and remembering (or finding) the library book is expected. No matter the age, we can set our kids up to be active participants when and how they can. Set up systems that support their growth and ability to navigate their day.